No matter how long the relationship lasts, releasing someone from your life isn’t linear.
Yes, there is a lot of discourse online saying, “they’re not thinking about you, so why are you thinking about them?” At a certain point, this is true, but you’ll also never really let it go if you don’t let those feelings flow.
This piece, though it started off being about someone, is really about myself (and I know someone here can relate), connection, being a mirror, and attachment. As I sorted through my feelings, I realized my issue never lay with the other person, but how I felt when I was with them… because of me. More importantly, this is a pattern I’ve repeated several times.
What are some patterns you’re learning about yourself in relationship-building that you’d like to change?
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